You know your body. You know when your gut has changed. And yet many women describe leaving an appointment feeling that their symptoms were put down to stress, hormones or just one of those things. Part of the women's health gap is real, measurable and well documented. The other part is something you can work with: how clearly your gut symptoms come across in a ten minute appointment.
Women's digestive symptoms can be overlooked or put down to other causes, and important gaps remain in research into women's gut health. A nationwide Danish study found women were, on average, diagnosed around four years later in life than men across 770 diseases. Clear, specific notes about your gut symptoms may help them be taken seriously.
What is the women's health gap?
In 2022, England published its first Women's Health Strategy, a ten year plan that sets out to change how the health and care system listens to women [1]. It followed a call for evidence in which 84% of respondents said there had been times when they were not listened to by healthcare professionals [2].
The gap shows up in data too. A nationwide Danish study found that, across 770 diseases, women were diagnosed on average around four years later in life than men [3]. The researchers say the reasons are not yet clear and may include biology, culture and how diagnostic criteria were originally developed [3]. None of this means your GP is not on your side. It does mean it is worth going in prepared. Our guide to what is different about women's gut health is a good primer.
Why gut symptoms are easy to brush aside
Gut symptoms are common, vague and awkward to talk about. Irritable bowel syndrome, a common condition involving how the gut and brain interact, is a good example: a large review pooling data from many studies found women were around 1.67 times as likely as men to have it [4]. Because gut complaints are so common, there is a risk that a new or changing symptom gets filed under an existing label rather than looked at afresh. If you already live with IBS, our piece on how IBS affects daily life may feel familiar.
Then there is the embarrassment. Many of us downplay how often we go, or skip the detail, because talking about poo still feels taboo. Busy lives do not help either, as anyone who has read why working women's guts are always the first to suffer will know. The result is that the most useful information never makes it into the room.
| Instead of saying | Try saying |
|---|---|
| My stomach's been a bit off | For six weeks I've been going three times a day instead of once, and it's mostly loose |
| I'm always bloated | I'm bloated most evenings, and it's worse in the week before my period |
| It's probably nothing | This is a change from what's normal for me |
| Could it just be hormones? | What else could explain this, and what would help rule it out? |
See a GP if:
- you have been bloated for 3 weeks or more
- you keep getting bloated
- bloating comes with weight loss, blood in your poo or a change in bowel habit that does not settle
These are always worth a proper conversation, whatever else is going on [6].
How to make your gut symptoms heard
Know your normal. It is much easier to say something has changed when you know where you started. Our guide to creating a gut health baseline explains how.
Bring dates and numbers. How long, how often, what it looks like. The Bristol Stool Chart was developed as a simple guide to stool form and gut transit time [5], and using it gives you and your GP a shared language. Our explainer on stool consistency walks through each type.
Say what it stops you doing. Missing work, avoiding social plans or planning journeys around toilets tells a clinician far more than mild discomfort.
Close the loop. Before you leave, ask what would make them want to see you again, and when. If you still feel unheard, many practices will let you book a longer appointment or see a different GP if you ask.
Being prepared is not about being difficult. It is about making sure the person helping you has the full picture.
Being heard often starts with knowing your own baseline. Before your next appointment, spend two weeks noting how often you go, what it looks like and what else was going on that day. Gutsi, a gut health tracker, makes that kind of pattern tracking passive, recording consistency and frequency over time, which can help you understand what's normal for you and give you something concrete to discuss with your GP.
References
- Department of Health and Social Care. (2022). Women's Health Strategy for England. https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/womens-health-strategy-for-england/womens-health-strategy-for-england
- Department of Health and Social Care. (2021). Results of the Women's Health: Let's talk about it survey. https://www.gov.uk/government/calls-for-evidence/womens-health-strategy-call-for-evidence/outcome/results-of-the-womens-health-lets-talk-about-it-survey
- Westergaard, D., Moseley, P., Sørup, F. K. H., Baldi, P., & Brunak, S. (2019). Population-wide analysis of differences in disease progression patterns in men and women. Nature Communications, 10, 666. https://doi.org/10.1038/s41467-019-08475-9
- Lovell, R. M., & Ford, A. C. (2012). Global prevalence of and risk factors for irritable bowel syndrome: a meta-analysis. Clinical Gastroenterology and Hepatology, 10(7), 712-721. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.cgh.2012.02.029
- Lewis, S. J., & Heaton, K. W. (1997). Stool form scale as a useful guide to intestinal transit time. Scandinavian Journal of Gastroenterology, 32(9), 920-924. https://doi.org/10.3109/00365529709011203
- NHS. Bloating. https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/bloating/
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